Enjoy Your Wins: The Power of Celebrating Success

Dennis Machu
3 min readMay 25, 2023

Story By: Dennis Machu

In the busy whirlwind of life, I often get caught up in the pursuit of the next goal, the next milestone, the next achievement. My close friend Kg. made an observation sometime back, remarking, “I don’t enjoy my wins much.” This statement, simple yet profound, resonated with me deeply. Today, I want to share some insights on this underappreciated aspect of our lives — the power of enjoying our wins.

Time at the river bank with the fam.

Life is a beautiful journey that carries us through a series of high peaks and low valleys. Our achievements are like the milestones that line this journey. They serve as concrete reminders of how far we’ve come, the challenges we’ve overcome, and the growth we’ve experienced. However, if we rush past these milestones without acknowledging them, we rob ourselves of the joy and satisfaction that come with our accomplishments.

“Nothing Ventured Nothing Gained,” has always driven me to keep pushing forward, to keep trying, and to keep taking risks. Yet, the true power of this mantra can only be realized when we take the time to appreciate the gains we’ve made. The venture is only half of the equation. Recognizing and celebrating the gains is what completes it.

The power I observed in celebrating my wins since I became more intentional about it:

  • Every effort I make, every ounce of hard work I put in is validated when I pause to appreciate my achievements. This gives me a sense of value and accomplishment, propelling me to strive harder, reach higher, and venture further.
  • Each victory I celebrate reinforces my belief in myself and boosts my confidence. It’s a testament to my abilities and gives me the courage to pursue even more challenging goals in the future, knowing that I have the capacity to succeed.
  • And it’s not just the grand, sweeping achievements that matter. Even the smaller, incremental victories are important. Celebrating these small wins helps me maintain a balance, keeping me grounded and preventing burnout. Success, after all, is a journey, not a destination.”

However, as with all things, there are also potential pitfalls to be mindful of. Here are a few that held me back:

  • While it’s important to celebrate our victories, it’s equally important to not let them lead to complacency. Success should spur us on to greater things, not lull us into a sense of satisfaction that halts progress.
  • Celebrating our wins should be a personal, introspective experience. If we start comparing our achievements with others, we run the risk of turning our celebrations into a competitive sport, which can lead to dissatisfaction and envy.
  • While acknowledging our achievements is important, it should not lead to an overemphasis on success. Failure, too, has its own lessons to teach and can often be a stepping stone to greater success.

It’s crucial that we take the time to “Enjoy our Wins”. Let’s not be so consumed with the venture that we forget to appreciate the gains. After all, every milestone, every victory, is a testament to our resilience, determination, and spirit.

The journey of life is not just about reaching the destination; it’s about enjoying the ride and savoring the victories along the way. The mantra “Nothing Ventured Nothing Gained” isn’t just about taking risks; it’s also about celebrating the rewards that come from those ventures. So, the next time you achieve something, no matter how small, take a moment to celebrate it. You’ve earned it.

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Dennis Machu

Agile Coach | Cloud Architect (AWS) | Backend Software Engineer & Architect (Node / FastAPI)